The Rwanda Series

A Friendship Is Born

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Jack and I have always been involved in our home church and always willing to lend a helping hand wherever needed.  During one of our concerts, we became aware of a church not far from us that was struggling to keep its doors open. We agreed to help out in any way that we could. It was a very small church and my husband paints a very adequate picture when he explains that the doors to the sanctuary, when open, collide with the entrance door.

 

One particular day as my husband was stepping out of the sanctuary, a young black man was entering the building just before church began. Of course the doors collided and thus the two men were introduced. The man was just sent away from a sister church, being told that he might be more comfortable at the church another town over. Jack’s heart went out to this man and made certain he felt welcomed here. He invited him to sit with our family and to come home with us after services and join us for lunch.

 

We learned that this young man was a nursing student doing his rotation in our area while his pregnant wife was working in another state. Logistically, it was impossible for them to be together. He was a pleasant man, originally from Rwanda, and we enjoyed a wonderful afternoon with him.  We exchanged telephone numbers and told him he was welcome in our home anytime he was in the area and that we looked forward to meeting his wife someday.

    

A few weeks later we got a call from this man asking if he could come for lunch after church and bring a couple of friends with him. Of course we were happy to oblige. His friends were two women from Rwanda. They spoke very little English but we managed to enjoy a wonderful meal and an afternoon together singing and chatting, albeit via an interpreter for the most part.

 

The next day Jack got a call from the young man wanting to explain that one of the woman that we entertained the day before was the wife of the Prime Minister of Rwanda. She wanted to know if she could come to see us that afternoon.  I was shocked when Jack relayed the conversation to me, thinking that I may have cleaned a little deeper and cooked something fancier had I known, but apparently none of that made any difference.

 

Having learned from our previous visit that Jack was a computer consultant, Mrs. Prime Minister was now on a mission to convince Jack to make a trip to Rwanda to advise on their security preparedness for Y2K. Jack was a bit reluctant so she got up and asked to use the phone. We said of course. She briefly spoke to someone in her native language then handed the phone to Jack, who apprehensively said, “Hello.”  Jack was now speaking to the Prime Minister who was aggressively negotiating a contractual agreement for Jack to come to their Country on a Y2K consulting trip. Jack said there were many details that would have to be worked out in regards to visa’s and passports, etc. The Prime Minister said not to worry about any of that as he would take care of it, which of course he did.

 

We enjoyed many visits with Mrs. Prime Minister and despite our communication barriers we were developing a bond that would remain strong over time. In fact they were sending one of their sons to the boarding academy we were going to work for.

 

I am so glad for the opportunity to become friends with these lovely people. When we open ourselves up to letting God lead, we never know what surprises await.

 

 

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